Not a day goes by that I don't feel completely guilty about putting my kids through a divorce. It is a constant struggle, especially since taking custody of my sons last December. I watch them deal with the fallout every day and sometimes, it tears me up. I often wonder what is going through their minds and what they would like to say if they could find the words. I have learned never to assume that they don't understand; they understand far more about their situation than we realize.

I found this video of a child of divorced parents who decided to write them a letter and it is a heartbreaking lesson that all divorced or divorcing parents should ALWAYS remember. Our children are not always as resilient as we think they are. Please, if you are divorced or divorcing, watch this video, your child's future well-being might depend on it.