Kenny Rogers’ Widow Wanda Has Found Love Again, With His Blessing
Before Kenny Rogers' 2020 death, he knew he didn't want his wife, Wanda, to be single forever after losing him.
In a new interview with People, Rogers' widow reveals that she's found love again in the three years since Rogers died — but she might never have been able to take that step if her husband hadn't encouraged her to do so, long before she needed his blessing.
Rogers was 28 years older than his wife, so he always knew that she was likely to outlive him, and he made it very clear to her that he didn't want her to stay faithful to his memory at the expense of her own happiness.
"He said, 'I'm not going to live forever. I want you to be happy,'" Wanda recalls. That day, they were watching TV, and Rogers hit the pause button and turned to her to have an important conversation about what was on his heart."
"'You're young. I want you to have a full life past me,'" Wanda remembers him saying. "And of course I was like, 'What? I don't want to talk about that. Turn the TV back on.'"
But after his death, as Wanda processed her grief and came to a point in healing where she was open to the idea of meeting someone new, those words helped her take that step without feeling guilty that she might be going against her late husband's wishes. Eventually, a longtime friend of the singer's wife introduced her to someone new, and Wanda's friendship with that man blossomed into a romantic relationship.
"It's been big shoes to step into after I was with this icon for all these years in a very special relationship," she acknowledges. "But it's really been an easy relationship."
"... It's funny because a few of my friends said, 'I just really feel like Kenny's a part of this somehow.' And I know that sounds weird. [But] he tells our kids, 'I'm not your dad. No one will ever take the place of your dad, but I'm here as your friend forever," Wanda continues.
Rogers and Wanda are parents to 19-year-old sons Justin and Jordan, and the singer's wife explains that she's hoping to teach them about healthy grieving, while still not letting a devastating loss keep them from living their lives.
"One of the big things is to show the boys that life goes on. And it does — I'm dating someone very special," she reflects. "Kenny gave me his very best and he wanted me to move on and be happy. That's a really big man to be able to say those words and mean it. I think it just shows the kind of guy he was."
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